It was a bummer - The box it came in was a bit beat up but have seen worse - Think it may have been something else in the box that shifted and hit the teeth.
Triple checking everything - now things take way too long but will do that for a while i suspect till some confidence in workmanship comes back.
We built a stay for the DMF to keep it in place that worked off the teeth on the starter ring - and also had the pin in on the front to stop any movement while it was tourqued
Here is a pic - Top in the new - bottom is the old.
Still cant believe I missed this.