Well I have some news
I decided not to do the wheel flares and keep the car clean.
I removed the tacky wing and rebuilt the rear of the car.
The estimates were around 17-20 thousand but I was able to do it myself for around 3400 Canadian including parts. I ended up pocketing a healthy sum from the insurance company.......but....
I had the car finished less than an hour when someone backed into me....
Since they hit the rear quarter, I now have an excuse to flare the rear quarters.
fortunately the new taillights hadn't arrived yet so they didn't get damaged.
Thank you all for the tips on painting the front bumper grill black.
I like the look.
I will keep you posted on the wheel arches. Not sure how crazy I want to go yet.