What happens if you press the 1 or 2 memory seat locations (3 if it's an addl remote added to system)? Does it go to that spot as well? If so, memory spot associated w/ your fob is set there. Easy solution: reprogram corresponding memory location(s) for fob and it will return to that spot upon unlock.
I don't think '01 Boxster has an 'easy exit' Lexus-like feature. If it does, will require Porsche (PIWIS or PST2, et al) software to change personal settings. Durametric might be able to also but don't know for sure. Dealer or well equipped indy will have Porsche software needed to change.
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