Y'know, with as many times as I've visited my dealer about stupid ****************, I was positive that they thought I was some high-maintenance dickwad.
However, I've actually formed a really good relationship with my service advisor. He understands my issues and doesn't think I'm being a pain in the ass. I come in, we joke around a bit, talk about the issues and he does his best to address them. I'm really impressed.
I'm sorry to hear you haven't had as much luck with your guys up there, but perhaps it's just your perception. Maybe they don't see you as a pain in the ass. Think positive.