Oh jeepers! Not another driver hitting parked car! Incredible!
Same thing happened to me, and yes, my Boxster with similar damage was totaled. (
http://986forum.com/forums/general-discussions/43878-ahhh-my-car-hit-bad-today.html)
Oh, do not remove any parts from the car before it goes to the insurance company, they really frown on that because if the car is totaled then its not your car, its their car and then its theft. You'll have more than enough to argue about with the other guys insurance company without having to worry about a theft claim against you.
For me, it was an opportunity to get a 996 and replace the Boxster
Keep us up to date on how everything turns out.