thanks JFP and Heiko.
i did some homework before posting.
the part number for the connector is 443972995 and its a VW Audi part (can be found in BMW as well).
just like JFP said (and sunset imports), "Porsche like to sale their connector as a hole wiring loom"
i can get the connectors pretty cheep from pelican parts:
Pelican Parts - Automotive Parts and Accessories - Porsche & BMW
problem is, i do not think it comes with the pins that go in it, and i don't know the part number for the pins.
was hoping someone who converted is car to a race car or someone who parting out will be able to help.
will wait couple of days, and then a trip to the graveyard.