I am in this process now, but not due to wear but due to hitting the curb. I already had brand new month old control arm and sway bar links so had to buy them again. I went aftermarket due to my car has 108k on it and I wanted to save money. I never saw a aftermarket hub carrier so I bought that used. I bought a new DSS axle shaft for $150 and new aftermarket arms and links. Still waiting on the hub carrier then will get it all together and see how it all goes.
I wish I knew about this place earlier, as they have OEM used package deals on suspension parts. Check them out, they seem to be the best price and free shipping if you want to try OEM used.
https://www.redlineautoparts.com/porsche/1997-2004-boxster-996-911/