Be careful with advice on this forum, many choices are personal taste and you are the one that is going to purchase and live with this car. I think there is very good advice and experience regarding functional items - windstop, Bose, hardtop or not, PASM etc..
However, when it comes to wheels and colors etc.. get what you want. If you love the 19" wheels get them. The ride quality difference isn't that big.
The one consideration is resale value, so I wouldn't necessary get a very uncommon or unusual color combo (ie green interior).
Make yourself happy, you will love the car.
