Thanks folks, THis has been super useful in allowing me to see my options. While I like all of what I see I think the one that would sit nicest with my wife and kid is what Chuck showed...that seems to balance the look I am going for the most. Also, less likely my wife will curb the wheels. Plus, Chucks car just looks stunning with stock wheels.
Another wheel I think I would consider is
http://986forum.com/forums/show-tell-gallery/26711-18inch-2008-cayman-wheels-99-boxster.html