No answer from torque solution :/
So I took the lead and ground the insert flat so they would fit perfectly inside without being too tight.
It took 20 minutes from the time I took my toolbox out and the time I had the mount out. 40 minutes to grind the inserts on a bench grinder (and clean the mess that I just made), and 15-20 minutes to put the mount back on !
Now the car feels really good ! like a new car (new flywheel, clutch, ims, tires, and engine mount
)