[rdass623]

as far as the entitled 22 yr old son goes, pick him up in the boxy, not the truck. tell him if he wants his stuff to call a mover, when he explains he doesn't have the money, advise him to get a job. after needing to work, his attitude towards school will change. oh by the way, be sure to bring home his textbooks, they are yours (you paid for them) (he will need them when he figures out the world is a rough place to make a living).