By no means are you upsetting me or annoying me my friend,I am sorry to hear about your wifes pre-existing condition yes you win but bear in-mind that we are all paying for it, in higher premiums.
Your Business my not have to pay employee health care but most are, that is why there have been hundreds of wavers for some business not to have to pay, Mc Donald being one of them, but please don't take my word for it,just google it, it's all there.
By saying you come from a highly political and influential family, I take it that you must be a Democrat.
If so, anything said here or anywhere, is not going to change your mind.