You should be looking fo a shop that have a 100% hand wash service. I know you're in NY but here's the link to the shop where I take my car for special pampering..for short when I'm lazy to wash my car. I found this shop thru local Boxster owner and they are highly recommended by most people that I know.
http://ajautodetailing.com/services.html
I hope from there you could get some idea on what shop to look for. Good Luck
