Well I'm kinda freaked...I talked to an independent shop, didn't bring it in, but they said that if the clutch is slipping they wouldn't drive it because it could take out the flywheel if it goes and that's another $900.
They only quoted me $200 less than the dealer!
I'm not too worried about the motor mount since it will be covered under an extended warranty. If they want to replace it fine, the extended warranty is 0 deductable. So they can go to town for all I care...the $1500 for the clutch kinda hurts. I bought the car second hand, so the first owner could have been a bit abusive....not really sure.