It was hilarious!
There was nothing mean about it. You see it that way because that's your perception. If you choose to see the negative in things, that's on you. I'm a happy person, so I don't see it that way.
You don't get to tell me what my intentions were. You can state your perception all you want, but I can't control how you perceive things. That's a result of your experiences.
When you're hanging out with the guys and one gives another crap about something (let's say a girlie shirt), do you jump up and call the former mean and a bully? Jeez Louise...you guys have turned this into a pity party.
It made me laugh.
Check this out. It's sure to make even the most uptight laugh.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Ks_wf1O0mA