Don't worry about the boy, first serious girlfriend should clear all that up.
This is why mothers envy their daughters-in-law; the moms spend half their lives trying in vain to get the kid to pick up his socks and the new wife comes along and suddenly the boy will vacuum, do dishes, tidy up, etc.
Maybe ask around among your friends' daughters for a blind date for your son? Preferably with an ambitious, goal-oriented, college-attending girl.