Welcome Ridercoach. I agree with you that this is a nice forum. You'll see a BruceLee posting quite often and he's a moderator that deserves your compliments.
I can't help you with amber lights and memory seats (I have neither) but I've read that you can order an owner's manual from the dealer for around $15. Or, you can register as a member at
www.renntech.org and download either a model year 2000 or 2003 owner's manual.