These guys have a pretty active performance driving program. Check em out.
Arizona Region Porsche Club of America - Event Browse
Get a good instructor in your car and he will show you when to push it, and when to reel it in. Techniques that can make you a much more skilled driver and potentially save your life.
To answer your question directly... how do I drive? That depends:
Around town with drivers texting their girlfriends, on cel phones, kids and dogs nearby- like an old lady, 2/10ths
Highway onramps- 8/10ths
Mountain canyons with no other cars or traffic- 6/10ths-7/10ths
Practice sessions on a racetrack- 8/10ths
Timed runs for the money lap- All in baby! 10/10ths