thanks for all the info!!
I have heated and power seats - so I'll leave that as is. I also already have a 3 spoke wheel.
The only things that I think I'd want are the front bumper and the side skirts. Along with the lights. He is ready willing and able to let me have hte lights. Well, he's not going to "let me have them"...he's willing to sell them to me at a "fair" price.
I know litronics are seling for "around" $1000, so I'll probably work something out in that general price range. He might be willing to swap front bumpers. I"m afraid it he pulled offf his side skirts, it would make the car look bad if it damaged someething.
he's about to get a divorce and the car will have to go. swapping out the lights might affect his resale, but probably notg by a ton. swapping out front bumpers on a car with the aero kit - not sure if it would look okay afterward or if his car would look werid