First Brake Pad Replacement - Need Some Advice

[dja1980]

My brake-wear indicator came on for the first time last week. Even though it only came on once (didn’t relight the next time I drove the car), I would assume that I’m getting pretty close to being due for my first brake pad replacement. I’ve done brakes on my Hondas before, but this will be a first on my 02 Boxster S. Therefore, I have some questions before I take on the project…

Do most go with OEM pads, or are Textar, Akebono, Mintex, etc… that I’ve seen mentioned a better option?

Do the rotors typically need to be replaced (65,000 miles)? Mine are cross-drilled… is resurfacing an option?

What all needs to be purchased to do this job correctly… pads, rotors, pad sensors, retainer kits, brake cleaner, anti-squeal glue, brake grease?

I was going to order from Suncoast, but obviously not if I buy outside of OEM. Where is the best place to order from?

Thanks in advance... Dave