Hello- I’ve been searching for an answer in the forums to no avail.  I bought these 4  point ground spark plugs and cannot find a good answer on gaping.  They came pre-gaped at 0.20 inch and  I see 0.032 is the recommended gap for my 2004  550 SE  3.2 engine.  Question 
1: do I/can I re-gap them? 
2: do you run these at the factory gap?
3: is there another item number that gets you a factory gap of 0.032? 
4: how do you measure the gap? As the electrode does not stick up higher than the porcelain insulation. 
5: should I return them and get a single prong type?  Recommendations?
TIA