SAE Viscosity Grade (Motor Oil) 10W60
Vis @ 100°C, cSt 25.5
Vis @ 40°C, cSt 173
Viscosity Index 182
CCS Viscosity, Poise, @*C 65@-25
Pour Point, °C -45
Pour Point, °F -49
Flash Point, °C 257
Flash Point, °F 495
NOACK Evaporation Loss,1hr @ 482°F (250°C), % 6
HTHS Vis, cP @150°C, ASTM D4741 6.7

I just did a track day this weekend in my bone stock 2000 2.7 and the water temp never got above 104C and the oil never got above 108C. This was during a 90+ F day, running 25 min sessions at Homestead. But I wasn't winding it up to the redline before every shift either. I was in the 4500 to 6500 range the whole time.

How were you measuring these temps? Where are you senders located?

Durametric, right after every run. I would say within less than 5 minutes after being on the track.

at the end the only thing that really matters to me is the oil pressure
When it drops below 3 (bar) ~ 45 PSI then I start to get worried... normally it's around 4.5